This time of year can be very difficult for many; especially if you are single, have no children and no supportive family around you.
Cold, wet, dark nights, fluffy Christmas adverts, happy positive music and to top it off... your best friend has just announced they have found someone 'amazing'. Just makes you sick, right? Look! Being in a relationship can be wonderful, but it can also be a fucking nightmare if it's the wrong one... and at the end of the day, it does not complete you!
Walking alone is where you will find your true sense of self, your strength, your ambitions, your goals in life and also is a test on your overall makeup and mind! You start understanding what you like and what you don't, what drives you forward and motivates you. It can be a great way to set up something new that you have wanted to do for a long time, but was maybe held back by someone.
Now let's get something straight! I'm not saying you should completely turn away from any kind of romance. What I am saying is, make sure you have 'found yourself' enough to be able to handle things, so that if that person then walks away from you, or ends up not being right for you; you will still be OK.
Stand in your own strength and make sure YOU have a great Christmas!